Long Distance Relationship - Can it Work?

By Ann Satchel

Making a relationship work is hard enough as it is, but to have miles and even oceans to separate the two of you is even more difficult. Many people believe that long distance relationships simply do not work, and many couples even opt to breakup than risking trying if long distance relationships really do work.

It depends on the couple first and foremost. The way they react to situations that this kind of relationship brings will determine if the relationship will work at all. Yes, successful long distance relationship can and do exist. It takes a long stretch of patience and sacrifice from both parties. But it will survive, like any other type of relationship as long as you are both willing to make it work.
If you are in a long distance relationship, or about to embark on one, here are a few insights on how to make your relationship work, and help make it strong:

Before he leaves, clarify what needs to be clarified. Talk about important things. If you have questions, this is the perfect time to ask. Are you dating exclusively? Who will call who? Set a common, regular available time for a phone call, or to talk online. It is important to remind each other to keep your communication lines open.

Do things together and don't mind the distance. There are still a lot of things you can do as a couple despite the distance. Keep in mind that couples who are not in a long distance relationship do not just spend their time talking on the phone. You could go watch the same movie and talk about it like you watched it together. Use a webcam to talk about how your day went. Send your partner flowers and chocolates like you are not too far. Keep a journal even online to keep each other updated. There are so much more you could do to keep the excitement alive. Be creative. Defy the distance.

Entering this kind of relationship means you understand that some negative emotions like jealousy and mistrust are likely because the two of you are apart. If something makes you feel jealous, talk to your partner about it. Do not make assumptions and do not jump to conclusions. Give him trust and the benefit of the doubt. Remember that jealousy and the tendency to be controlling are top reasons why long distance relationships end.

It is natural to worry about your loved one and the things he might be doing since you are not together, but don't let it get in the way. Learn to be more positive and think that in time, things will be better and you will be with each other again. Talk about your future together. Make plans and set goals so that the two of you have something to look forward to and hope for together.
Long distance relationships take two brave and trusting individuals for it to work. It is not for everybody, but if you truly love the person, you wouldn't let distance get in the way of you two.

Ann Satchel has been writing about relationships for the past three years. She also enjoys writing about men's accessories, like how to find a great

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