How To Stop Your Guy From Starting An Affair! Follow These 4 Great Tips Now
By Sienna Gillespie
Newspapers and the TV and internet seem to be full of celebrities having been caught in an affair, or multiple affairs. Plus the divorce rate is continuing to go up and up. How can you make sure that your guy won't start an affair? How can you be the kind of woman that a man will never want to leave? Here are 3 of the best tips for women to follow.
Tip #1: Realize that Men are different from Women... Well, you know that already - men are definitely aliens. But do you truly know it? Do you understand that men's eyes may turn to follow a girl with a great figure - automatically? That if an attractive sexy-looking woman flirts with him, he will make eye contact and smile - automatically? Oh dear. Guys brains are wired from centuries ago to be on the lookout for healthy women for mates. What can a wife or partner do? Easy - do not take it personally, do not pout, cry, nag at him, get angry, or start a war about it. Instead, make it something you both can laugh about together, or maybe tease him by asking him to check out the great buns on the guy over there - but then let him know that you think your own guy is well worth flirting with! And, practice your own flirting skills on HIM. After all, since he is your partner, you probably know exactly what turns him on, right?
Tip #2: Watch out for your own feelings of insecurity... It can be easy to feel insecure about your own attractiveness if you have gained a bit of weight, or stopped trying to look well-groomed, or had a couple of kids with a few more wrinkles and lack of sleep. But the truth is, that is all about your own feelings, not about how your guy actually feels about you. So watch out for the dangerous pitfalls of jealousy and resentment. Those two terrible feelings will absolutely sour your relationship with your partner. And in fact, you will end up driving him away! Remember #1 - he will find you attractive if you treat him like the great guy he is trying to be - it is that simple.
Tip #3: Dress your guy for success... I do NOT mean dress for success for his job. Instead, take the time to dress his emotions up so you two can have a strong marriage. What your partner needs from you more than anything else is to know that YOU think he is marvellous. That YOU think he is attractive, admirable, capable, smart, interesting, a great worker or a great father or... a great guy in many specific ways. If he walks out the door each morning after getting all that from you, he will definitely be strengthened against sliding into an affair with someone he sees who batts her false eyelashes at him! Take time each day to make a note about what you admire or like about your partner. After all, you want to be sincere and honest when you tell him that he is the greatest guy in your world!
Do you see that you are responsible for your part in the relationship? To have a strong marriage or strong relationship, you need to be able to let your partner know - specifically, as well as in general terms - that he is admired and respected and loved, at home. He will not want to do anything to lose you, then. It is a kind of armor for him when you make sure he KNOWS he is your hero.
One last quick tip #4: No complaints about him, in public... Instead, let him overhear you telling your girlfriend(s) what a great guy he is, with specific examples, and about how the two of you are building a really strong marriage or relationship together. Never let him hear you complain about him - save the negatives for private groans and moans with your best friends. Positives in public, negatives in private - a good rule to follow. Great relationships take work, and they take time, and definitely your relationship may hit some bumps along the way, which is very normal. Work on problems together, since that is how intimacy is built: sharing how to handle problems, how to manage the challenges, as well as sharing the great times and peak experiences. You will be doing the best you can to stop the possibility of your guy starting an affair if you follow these tips.
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