How to tell if he cheating on you?

By Love and Relationships Staff

Here is a question most women will ask themselves at some point in any relationship with a man and some women will find themselves pondering this question more than once. Is he cheating? There are several age-old techniques to get an answer to this question and while modern technology makes it easier in some respects for a man to hook up with another woman, it also makes it easier to catch him.

If you know your man well, your intuition is the best tool you have available. Men are notorious creatures of habit and a change in his normal schedule and demeanor are strong clues that something may be happening.
Some of the best tools to discern a cheater are the five senses we're all born with. If your man comes home smelling like perfume, or if he has suddenly started paying much more attention to his attire and grooming; these are very troublesome signs.

Does he suddenly need to take come calls on his cell phone privately? And is he suddenly receiving a large number of calls when his phone is normally silent? The thing to do in this situation is to innocently inquire if work or something else is up, and if he gets defensive about it this is definitely not a good sign. Does he no longer show the affection he did just a few months earlier? Or does he recently show more affection than normal? These are both troubling signs that something may be going on.

Long-term relationships take planning and cooperation between both parties involved in it. If a man is suddenly reluctant to discuss future plans and opts out of commitments at the last minute, things are most likely amiss. This is a clear sign that he is not sure about a future with you. If he has suddenly become defensive about his whereabouts and is spending more time with his buddies, is out of touch for extended periods of time, and/or working “overtime,” it's very possible some extracurricular activity is indeed taking place.

Not all men are cheaters and women who are obsessed with men cheating on them either from past relationships or personal history with their current mate can actually drive a man to seek comfort elsewhere. There is a fine line to walk and it's best not to become overly suspicious until your man gives you good reason to. Don't confront him until you have good evidence that something is actually taking place.

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